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Highlights of book: The Consolations of Philosophy by Alain de Botton, Penguin 2000, ISBN 978-0141-03837-7

Introduction

This is a most interesting selection of personal reactions to the main ideas of 6 selected "old" philosophers. The author intersperses this with some illustrative experiences of his own (real or imaginary). I am not totally sure about the titles of the chapters (or of the book as a whole), especially as some of the quotations don't recommend "consolation". However the book is very readable and is well within the grasp of an ordinary reader. One critic says of the book that "philosophy is the new rock and roll" - this I think is going too far!

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Socrates7For many of us, a priority is to be liked, rather than to speak the truth. We do not like to publicly doubt ideas to which the majority is committed. We seek the approval of figures of authority.
 13It is not only the hostility of others that may prevent us from questioning the status quo. Our will to doubt can just as powerfully be sapped by an internal sense that social conventions must have a sound basis.
 21One would never imagine that making a good pot or shoe could be result from intuition alone. So why then do we assume that the more complex task of directing one's life can be undertaken without any sustained reflection on premises or goals?
 41-2However, we should beware against belief that being hated by the majority must be right.
Epicurus55The task for philosophy is to help us interpret our indistinct pulses of distress and desire, and therefore save ourselves from mistaken schemes for happiness.
 60Natural and necessary: friends, freedom, food, shelter, clothing and thought (about the main sources of anxiety, such as illness, death, poverty, superstition). Natural but unnecessary: grand house, private pool, banquets, servants, fish and meat. Neither: fame, power.
 61A graph of happiness against money spent flattens out very soon.
 65Why do we think money will buy more happiness? We assume it will provide solutions to needs we don't fully understand. Also, the opinions of those around us, as well as commercial interests, promote a material vision of the good - and downplay an unsaleable one.
Seneca80-1At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality. The brick wall analogy: we need to think about a soft landing, or to somehow jump up and over (RT: or round?)
 83What makes us angry is dangerously optimistic notions about what the world and other people are like.
 87We must hold in mind the possibility of disaster at all times. See "Praemeditatio" on p 91.
 93The continuing belief that the world is fundamentally just (i.e. good prospers, evil doesn't) is implied by the very complaint that there has been an injustice.
 96Reassurance can be the cruellest antidote to anxiety.
 98 Stoics are identified as wise by only one detail: how they would respond to sudden poverty (or other calamity).
 102-5We must resist the construction that the other people associated with our frustration are doing it to spite us. It's better to assume that they don't know that they are adversely affecting us.
 107-8Stoics' view of life - like being a dog attached by a lead to the back of an irregularly moving cart. It is better to go with the flow than resist and risk being strangled.
 109But it's just as bad to treat external events as unchangeable when they are not, and accept the status quo.
Montaigne119M comments on animals' ability to find natural cures for some bodily disorders, e.g. herbs, salt licks.
 120 Pyrrho's pig - the only passenger that didn't panic in a storm at sea.
 121aWe have been allocated inconstancy, hesitation, doubt, pain, superstition, worries about what will happen (even after we are dead), ambition, greed, jealousy, envy, unruly, insane and untameable appetites, war, lies, disloyalty, backbiting and curiosity. We take pride in our fair, discursive reason and our capacity to judge and to know, but we have bought them at a price which is strangely excessive.
 121bMisplaced confidence in reason was the wellspring of idiocy - and, indirectly, also of inadequacy.
 121cTo learn that we have said or done a stupid thing is no big deal; we must learn a more ample and important lesson, that we are but blockheads (especially if we are philosophers that think we know all the answers).
 124We have to accept that we don't always have full control over our own body parts (e.g. private parts).
 125-7Much of the problem arises because it isn't socially acceptable to talk about such things.
 142Every man calls barbarous anything he is not accustomed to. But there are still differences in value between the customs of different countries. Cultural relativism is as crude as nationalism.
 146 Terence: I am a man, nothing is foreign to me.
 147Of M's best friend: "he alone had the privilege of my true portrait". M wrote to compensate for losing him. With most people, we feel we have to hide so much.
 153The very good Collège de Guyenne excelled at imparting learning, but failed entirely at imparting wisdom. We ought to seek out not who understands most, but who understands best.
 161We should maybe learn from authors who can express our very own thoughts but with a clarity and psychological accuracy we cannot match. But they may impose limits on us, since they may not have had all the experiences we have.
 165There is much danger in trying to justify what one says or writes by quoting big names.
 166If we are good scholars, we can derive greater insights from our own experience than from all the books of old.
 168A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
Schopenhauer185"Will to life", which includes love, is a force that invariably has precedence over our reason, and distorts all reason's plans and judgments.
 187The conscious mind is a partially sighted servant of a dominant, child-obsessed will to life. It is unable to learn all its plans.
 192The pursuit of personal happiness (e.g. with a life partner) and the production of healthy children are two radically contrasting projects. We unconsciously choose opposites or different types for our partners, maybe to cancel out our own bad tendencies.
 196Every (other) creature on earth (including rats and moles) seems to be equally committed to a meaningless existence, so why do we expect any better?
 197We should drop expectations which, when dashed, would inspire bitterness.
 198The world and this life are certainly not arranged for the purpose of maintaining a happy existence. Older people wear the expression of disappointment(!).
 199Art and philosophy are humankind's relief from purposeless existence.
Nietzsche210Fulfillment is not to be resolved by avoiding pain, but by recognizing its role as a natural, inevitable step on the way to reaching anything good.
 211-2 Übermenschen show courage, ambition, dignity, strength of character, humour and independence; and not sanctimoniousness, conformity, resentment and prissiness. They are involved in the world.
 215The most fulfilling projects appear inseparable from a degree of torment, because we can't hit things off straight away without experience. See the mountain climbing analogy (p 218 on).
 223aOnly thoughts which come from walking have any value (RT: are they better if walking on your own?)
 223bThe frightful, destructive forces (like glaciers) are the road makers of humanity (the produce fertile soil).
 224Every pain is an indistinct signal that something is wrong, which may engender a good or bad result, depending on the sagacity and strength of mind of the sufferer (e.g. panic, or analysis of what is amiss).
 226Good craftsmen learn to construct the parts properly before daring to make a great whole. And they allow themselves time for it.
 227The gardening analogy: things have potential. One should not cut out every negative root.
 229Even Greek temples come from a culture which had Dionysiac festivals.
 230The Greeks did not repudiate the natural drives. Waging war on passion is stupidity.
 232Getting drunk to escape anxiety is stupid.
 233Man does not strive for happiness - only the English do that. But Nietzsche did - but at least he expected pain too.
 234Don't drink beer in the 'lowlands'; make the climb, live dangerously.
 236-7Christianity is cowardice, self-deception (e.g. be meek, obey your masters). This weakens our resolve to 'garden' our problems.
 238-9Christianity emerged from the minds of slaves, denouncing what they would have liked but were too weak to fight for. The claim was that powerlessness is good, and the emphasis is on comfortableness.
 243a Saccharine consolations are ultimately more cruel than helpful.
 243bThe worst sickness in men is in the way they have contributed to their own sickness.
 244Not everything which makes us feel better is good for us. Not everything which hurts may be bad. To regard states of distress as something to be abolished is almost as stupid as the will to abolish bad weather.

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This version updated on 22nd January 2011

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