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Abortion.
Due to a request, I am starting this discussion
thread on Abortion, an issue which is important to weigh up carefully.
Advocates of abortion often site personal choice
while Christians site the right to life. In reality each case should be
weighed up on its own merits. It is not reasonable, fair or intelligent to
say abortion is either right or wrong. There are many cases when abortion
is either desirable or necessary. However, there are many cases where
abortion is an act of selfishness or carelessness.
As a humanist or a person that puts a heavy emphasis
on human life, and all life for that matter, I believe that there is a profound
importance in every life. Anyone who has studies "situational
ethics" will be able to recognise some of the dilemmas in making hard and
fast decisions. However, when it comes to a decision about either the life
of the mother or the unborn child, I believe the life of the mother must take
priority.
The unfortunate reality of many abortions in
Australia is that abortion is used as a tool for unwanted pregnancy. I
have a universal ethic which I often state as a test to many situations in
life. It is:
Be
selfish as long as it doesn't adversely effect others. I would even extend
"others" to the planet.
If I use this to test many cases of abortion I will
have to disagree with the practice as a means of contraception and stopping
unwanted pregnancy. The issue is not in the spiritual viability of the
zygote or foetus. The issue is in the protection of a venerable and
fragile life. In some cases it has been described as the ultimate form of
child abuse.
Some arguments discuss the viability of the
foetus. My answer to that is that we don't devalue a human life because
they are mentally impaired or disabled. Nor should we! I know
atheists who view the abortion of an unborn child as similar to putting a dog
down. Although all life is important, I would still prefer not to view a
human life and a dog's life as the same.
As I stated earlier each case should be weighed on
its own merits and it would be good to discuss a particular circumstance if
anyone has one. There are many factors involved that determine the
legitimacy of the practice.
REK says
i
found it interesting that there have been no comments regarding the subject of
abortion. personally, in particular after the interest in the past
weeks' news item on the 'abortion pill' my stance is stronger than ever.
regardless of morality issues - unless one has been in the position to have an
abortion - they should not have a say. i heard on this evening's news
that 'if we did not have the 100,000 or so abortions (I am suggesting figures
as I do not recall accurately) - we would have a better population in 50
years. I understand that scenario, however, has anyone thought for a
moment that maybe 70% - more or less of that figure would be single mothers,
or worse, abusive/or abused mothers. What then does that put back onto
society. Already we fork out billions for irresponsible, sometimes,
unfortunate mothers.....................where will the money come from then?
Fortunately, some women work their entire lifetime without having children -
our tax pays for such situations.
Mike:
Firstly,
I don't think my site has set the web alight yet. The people who are
responding are from a reasonably small pool of people, but growing
steadily. A lot of people are a little confounded by what's on the site
and find it intimidating too.
There
is an interesting fact that Australia must boom or bust.
This happened in the 50s where massive waves of migration were needed for
Australia’s survival as a nation. Having
more children is not the economic liability that people think it is.
Economists are quick to point to the need for Australia’s population to
still grow.
I
think using this however, is not a good argument against the Abortion pill.
We need to be teaching boys how to use condoms and girls how to use
contraception. At the end of the
day the unwanted pregnancy causes grief beyond what most can understand.
As
for not having a say if you haven’t had an abortion.
Does that mean I can’t have a say on drug regulation because I
haven’t been a drug addict? Does
that mean I can’t have a say on migration because I’m not a migrant?
The
claim that we’ll be a Muslim country if we don’t stop aborting babies is so
ridiculous it’s embarrassing. Abortions
are never desirable, ask anyone who has had one.
What is needed, are more responsible decisions with regard to choices
about sex.
I
don’t have a huge problem with giving money to irresponsibility.
Let’s face it we sent millions to Sadaam irresponsibly and we have sent
billions to prop up other oppressive regimes in the past.
So I would rather spend this money to try and give the children more
opportunity than what we do with other money.
We live in a socialist society where people who can’t or don’t make
good decisions are not penalised for their mistakes.
That’s the beauty about Australia.
Sadly in other parts of the world they would be treated terribly and left
to die. My ethic doesn’t allow
this to happen to anyone.
I
could write so much more but will leave it at that.
Regards
REK:
Again, I find it interesting no one has commented about abortion or so much on
other, perhaps more relevant topics (in my mind. I can only presume
everyone
is okay with a general stance on abortion for instance, - on which
i
fully agree with.)
Mike:
Let's see if we can get some comments for you by posting the topic on the front
page of the site. When you say you fully agree with something, what do you
mean. Personally I find a statement like that, with no boundaries, to be a
little naive. So you should clarify what you really mean.
For
example, if you fully agree with "abortion" you are saying you are
fine with it as a method of birth control. You are saying also that there
is no difference between a life at conception to a foetus at 9 months. In
other words it doesn't matter if you have an abortion at 12 weeks or 9 months because
abortion is fine full stop. You are saying that if you want to have a girl
and the baby is found to be male that abortion is OK. You are also saying
that the unborn should have no rights as do children and other people in
society. You are saying that a mother should have total control over this
independent entity (life) because it is reliant on the mother for sustenance,
even though born children are totally reliant on their mother or carer??
Can
you see why that need clarification? I'm tend to think that you have some
opinions on some of those matters. Let's know where you stand and we might
be able to generate some healthy discussion.
in
this case I have to agree with Mike. This a complex issue, but I think
that there are of course some basic principles that need to be upheld. I
believe very strongly in the dignity of human life - ending a human life at
any stage is a huge thing that needs to be considered carefully. I also
believe in the need for people to be responsible for their actions - can we
treat unwanted babies like we treat unwanted kittens? To what point does
our selfishness have its limits? I think that Mikes point is right.
Some years ago I did a human sexuality course and abortion was one of the
subject units we studied. We brought a lady in from "planned
parenthood" to supposedly give an unbiased "pro-choice"
perspective, but we soon realised that by "choice" she really meant
"pro". After the talk we had a big debate. Some of us
wanted to present our ideas in a reasoned manner, but some of the
pro-abortion people resorted to ridicule and verbal abuse - their main
arguments were - but I want to do it so I don't have to live with the
consequences of my irresponsible sexual behaviour. They actually
suggested that they couldn't control their sexual desire enough in order to
act responsibly!! They laughed at us because we wanted them to be more
objective and stop using emotive statements.
The
same could go for the anti-abortion lobby as well who allow no exceptions, who
assault doctors who perform abortions and then do nothing at all to help the
women and children that are left behind. Here is where I stand I suppose
- we need to love and have compassion. My wife and I have often reached
out to help single mothers we know and been there to help them with often
difficult domestic situations. I am willing to do the right thing to
help people. That includes help when childless couples want to adopt and
care for those unwanted children. But I nevertheless understand that
abortion is necessary in some cases where medical issues are involved.
As for the abortion pill, it only acts upon pre implantation fertilised ovum
and because it is given to the patient virtually immediately (in the case of
rape etc.) them we are not dealing with a foetus at all. It should be
noted that most fertilisations fail to implant anyway and pass from the
body with the next menstrual period. The bottom line is how we value or
do not value human life? If we value humans by the economic contribution
they make, their level of intelligence, their age or gender or ability to
defend themselves or not, then we are committing an act of violence.
You
see we have all been in these states at some time in our life. The Nazis
used this kind of reasoning to exterminate "unwanted people", but if
all humans are granted the right of an eternal value - that is each individual
is unique and irreplaceable - of infinite worth in their own right, then have
an ethic that values life and protects the weak from those who would destroy
life because it was convenient or expedient to do so. As I said before,
ending human life is a huge thing. Sometimes it has to be done where
that individuals' existence threatens others. We all have to live with
the choices we make - but I think we should err on the side of love.
Thank
u Ecclesian for your honesty foremost. Thank you also for not
'downing'
people who have made decisions u would not necessarily agree with.
I
thoroughly enjoy reading your comments.
Re
the abortion subject - I so understand and agree with you - however,
please
do remember, that by choosing to 'have these babies' in some
instances,
brings more abuse, heartache and instability to the 'home' for
want
of better terminology.
Your
quote: "The bottom line is how we value or do not value human life?
If
we value humans by the economic contribution they make, their level of
intelligence,
their age or gender or ability to defend themselves or not,
then
we are committing an act of violence."
Ecclesian,
you only need spend a couple hours with me in my town one
"pension
pay day on a Thursday" - and you too, I am certain, will agree -
there
is a time where we must make a stand on reproduction.
Something
I am not 'renowned in' as being compassionate for is my stance on
"disabled/less
fortunate" people. I do not believe they should be allowed
to
reproduce - is my first and foremost stance. To say, everyone deserves
to
be able to have a child is just absolutely selfish and unkind. My next
thought
is that "we don't allow horses or dogs to reproduce if their is an
abnormality
- so why the freaking heak would we do that to our own
children?!
I am not talking about abnormalities requiring extra teaching,
vision
impairment, deafness, etc - I am speaking of those abnormalities
where
the child has no quality nor wellbeing....
Goodness,
I am carrying on (no guesses who I am related to). I do enjoy
speaking
about such topics. I certainly hate arguments and confrontation -
but
there you go..........this is one I am adamant about. Tku once again
Ecclesian
for your wise words - yet not 'shoving it in your face stuff'. It
is
so much more pleasurable to read such comments and respond accordingly.
RNUT
I
also agree with you that abortion should not be used as a contraceptive or for
"unwanted pregnancies". The child that is aborted through no choice
of their own is a potential person that will never have a chance to be known
or be able to contribute to society, they could be a great person,
humanitarian who knows.
When
it comes to pregnancy due to rape or the life of the mother verses the life of
the unborn I plain don't know what is right or wrong. You would have to be in
the situation and be forced to decide for yourself but I do not know what is
right.
Jill:
Hi ya mike..
I must
say ive always been against the taking of any life whatsoever- but in the case -
if its the mothers life that is put at risk due to the pregnancy . well I must
say I do agree with your comment mike........ in the case of rape..
i personally wouldnt have an abortion...i couldnt take the life of
the innocent unborn child ,especially when it is not the unborn childs
fault..-i strongly believe that if we harm another we only harm
ourselves..... cause and effect (karma)... thanks mike...
it has been quite a long time since I last contributed to
"Mike's Forum". It's not that I "ran away" from the thrill of the debate, as
I know some people whose preconceptions are being challenged often do, rather
I just took a break and got busy with other thoughts. But lately I have been
thinking about making a contribution again, so I checked the forum to see what
changes there have been since I was last there.
What I
want to do is revisit the issues that I have looked at before and see if I can
give some new insights. I've begun with the forum index and the first topic
is abortion.
I'd like to reply to RNUT. I
don't know how long it has been since the entry was made, but there are some
things here that I think that I must answer. First of all, thanks for your
appreciation. Above all I want to be a compasionate commentator and have some
understanding of those who don't necessarilly agree with me. Of course it is
nice when we do aggree with each other, but that can give us a false sense of
security - we still need to challenge the ideas and press forward. We mustn't
just assume things about each other. For example, I know all about poverty
and "disabled and less fortunate people". I have lived in some of the poorest
suburbs in Brisbane. I am myself a carer of a disabled wife. I have lived in
places with large aboriginal and migrant populations and also unemployed
people who have been on welfare all their lives. I have worked as a teacher
in these places, I have been an unemployed pensioner in these same places.
All along I have tried to not let my circumstances drag my family and I down.
Instead we have always done our best to help others, to be the kind of family
that "takes people in" and be hospitable. When it comes to abortion, we are
not just dealing with ideas. These "disabled and less fortunate people" are
not abstractions, they are real people with feelings, with dreams, with
desires. Some of them will rise up out of their circumstances and others will
not. The question here is how exactly do we "take a stand on reproduction"?
There are a couple of assumptions here that I would like to challenge. First
of all - do we have the right to make decisions for other people? Who is the
"we" who makes such decisions? How do we decide who deserves to reproduce and
who does not deserve to do so? What will the criteria be and who will
determine those criteria? How do we enforce such decisions? Do we sterilise
people against their will? At risk here is the nightmare of a totalitarian
solution similar to that seen in the movie Gattica. What we have created is a
genetic elite who are "better" than those defined as genetically "faulty".
The implications for this new class of people could be huge - in terms of
their employment limitations, their ability to move upward in social status.
Abortion in this case becomes a political tool of social engineering and the
control of people. To talk about such eugenics with animals like dogs or
horses, really isn't appropriate for comparison with humans. People can own
animals but people can not and should not own other people. It is one thing
to use genetics to treat and heal genetic disorders, but medical treatment
exists to help people not harm them (according to the Hypocratic Oath). At
the heart of our concerns though should be the desire to help people. These
less fortunate people are not our enemies. Most of them are good people all
just trying to make their way in life. You say the following ...
I am not
talking about abnormalities requiring extra teaching,
vision impairment, deafness, etc - I am speaking of those abnormalities
where the child has no quality nor wellbeing....
such situations have nothing to do with "breeding", but rather are social
conditions that can be changed with a hand up (not hand outs!). The answer is
to tackle poverty and to build community life where social capital can be
built up - where people can have opportunity to care for each other more.
That is where I would put my concern and energy.
Hope that
you think that is the best way to go, blessings,
Ecclesian
Theodore.
As far as this goes I'd have
to weigh in with the people who said (more or less) that abortion should only be
considered in cases where killing a human, for no fault of his/her own, would be
acceptable. Which situations are these though? Unfortunately, modern abortion
laws were not founded on the basis that an unborn child is a "valid" human
life. Anyone can do it for any reason. So let's bring this discussion back to
reality.
What we need are laws that describe when and in what manner people can be killed
though no fault or wish of their own. Once we, as a society, have worked out
these laws we can then easily modify them to suit the issues raised by
abortion. Then everyone can be happy and sleep better at night knowing that we,
as a people, have settled the problem of when innocents can be killed and
applied it practically to modern life.
It is important to note that I mentioned, and not in vain, it should be decided
"what manner" innocents can be killed. It's one thing to O.D. on a pleasant
drug of choice and spend the rest of your (now very short) life happy! Quite
another to have your skull fractured and brains sucked out. Various other
popular tactics for mass slaughter of innocents may need to be reconsidered.
Hitler's gas chambers probably wouldn't be considered humanitarian by todays
standards. The popular "round'em up and shoot'em" tactic of South African
warlords would likely need revision too. Anyway, the point is, unborn children
*DO* have fully functional nervous systems after a certain point, this should be
taken into consideration.
So, let's make some practical steps towards progress! In general, when is it
practical to slaughter innocents. Don't get distracted by "what if they become
a great...", keep in mind that more than likely they're going to grow up to be
normal people just like you and me.
--
Theodore E. Jensen
"An open mind is like an open wound. You're more likely to die from it in
countries that have poor health care."
-me
Take a look at a document
Theodore posted me from Jonathan Swift.
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