FT1 - "FINDING THE ONE" COURSE - The next course will be run through Parramatta Community College. Room for the first 20 people only per intake. Contact Parramatta Community College on 9687 2072 to book and prepay. Course cost will be only $75 per sperson. The venue for the course will be at the Wentworthville Business Centre, Monash Rd Wentworthville and times will be 7.15 pm till 9 pm. Refreshments provided.

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	The FT1 Course is an interesting fun course where, if you follow the steps, you should be in a relationship within a month or two! Most people don't realize that there is a science to finding and quickly starting a full on relationship and there are steps you can quickly learn to get quick results. 99% of people don't know those steps and most don't even know that they don't know. These days, to find a satisfying and best choice relationship, it is highly advisable to do a professionally run advanced course on finding and starting a relationship. This is a course for people who would like to be in a relationship and realize they could only benefit from some professional dating and relationship training and, most importantly, are wanting to find someone special and ready to take action. If this is you then book in for the next course. Take the 8 week challenge and follow the steps exactly and find yourself in a committed relationship within 8 weeks. If you have a friend whom you feel could benefit from this course please feel free to photocopy these notes and pass it on to them or fax them to them. Course cost for the three weeks is only $75 paid in advance This is the only course, for people and would like to be in a relationship and who are decidedly relationship oriented as opposed to purely going to events oriented, where you can soon be in a relationship in a matter of weeks. A person who is desirous of being in a relationship, especially a committed relationship, will achieve their dreams by following the steps and doing all that is required in the course. Many who have done the course have found that just by doing the course puts you in the frame of mind to attract a relationship into your life . What we cover in the practical Finding The One, Finding and Cementing a Relationship course held over four Monday nights. (People intending to do the course are asked to familiarize themselves with course contents on this page prior to night one. Feel free to print off this page(s) and show it to friends who may care to do the course with you). The Facts and the Dilemma There are 4,000,000 people in Sydney, 20,000,000 in Australia. If you are compatible with only .1% of people, 1 in a thousand, then there are 4,000 members of the opposite sex who are just right for you and 20,000 in Australia. You just have to find some. There are two groups of people amongst people who are single, those who want to find someone and those who don't. Amongst those who want to find someone there are those who are ready to do something about it and those who aren't prepared to do anything to find someone or don't know how to go about it. Many of those in the latter group are not ready or prepared to take an active and directive role in finding someone but would be happy to have someone come along, as if by luck or magic and fall in their lap, literally. This course is a challenging dynamic practical course for those who are ready to get out of their comfort zone and take action. You are already ready for the right person, indeed many of them as we all have many facets to our personality. Do them and yourself a favour by doing what is required to bring you both together. The course is not a course just to tell you that to find someone special you should simply go to events or go on the internet. Many people who have done that have found that it is not that simple. If it were there would be no one left to go to the events or be left on the internet, they would have all found someone. The course is for people who have done those things and found that to find someone requires something extra to find a right one. The course is also, in the second half of the course, suitable for those who are in a relationship of sorts who would like to take it to a deeper level of commitment and intensify their relationship, adding some "spice", and make it a bit more organized.
Week 1	In Week 1 we discuss the various options of meeting a potential mate or mates when you are single such as internet dating and going to events and their shortcomings. We discuss the importance of concentrating upon the vast majority of the some 800,000 singles in Sydney who are not involved in these options and the desirability of finding those who are "off the beaten track" and who are the ones more likely to commit and we discuss the only option to find them which is pfcards (Partner Finding cards). We discuss and brainstorm the many ways of getting your cards in circulation finding potential appropriate partners for you in order to ultimately find your most appropriate match. Everyone who is serious about finding someone special and who is prepared and ready to do something about it should have their pfcards (Partner Finding cards) handy at all times. You never know when you will discover someone, it could happen when you least expect it and they could be your twin flame and also be looking to meet someone like you. Magic happens. Be prepared. Don't let an opportunity pass you by. Have your cards with you. Opportunities will present themselves wherever you go. On week 1 we also work out the wording for your cards, to best tee up and elicit and program the desired expectation and response from a qualified recipient so that they will take action and respond. The degree, quality and variety of the exposure you create for your cards will determine your success. Examples of cards from past courses will be provided, so bring pen and paper. On the night you will be given a floppy disk with a Word document which is a layout grid for 10 cards per sheet with an example of how cards should be set out with extra little wording bits which should appear on your card. During the session you will also be given a personal profile questionnaire to help you find your best points to help you word your card. After the session we gather downstairs for drinks to help each other work out the best wording for their cards, a very important uplifting camaraderie and bonding stage.
Week 2	In Week 2 we cover the Do's and Dont's of Dating, the art of dating or "interrodating", dating with a purpose, not just to entertain the other person, what to do on a date and what not to do, how to determine if that person is right for you and if they are what to do next. The art of effective dating is an important part of the course just in itself. Also covered are the valuable areas of finding a joint purpose and venture and commonality, entwining and the endless dance of reciprocation. On week two bring your partner finding cards to give one out to each of the people in the course and collect one from everyone else (not that the idea of the course is to meet your match from the attendees on the course (you might but don't expect it), but rather to meet them out in the real world). We act out procedures as to how to give an partner finding card to a desirable stranger of your selection should you choose to be active and directive with your cards. Your homework is to give out and put out some cards and hopefully get some responses and feedback and hopefully some early minor successes though any dates should only be set after week 3's session.
Week 3	In Week 3 we cover the new area of Relationship Agreements with Consideration. We learn how to ground and cement a relationship so that it will last for a predetermined period and longer and how to obtain commitment and security in a relationship, having it as a source of comfort not anxiety. A Relationship Agreement allows you to net those elusive wayward butterflies that flit from involvement to involvement. A Relationship Agreement also gives structure and certainty to a relationship and allows you to insure your relationship making it dumpproof and protects your assets and saves you from being cleaned out by an acquisitive lover. In this session you will also be introduced to the alternative agreement, the Love Contract, by Dr Robert Epstein Ph D, former Editor in Chief and currently West Coast Editor of Psychology Today, who has done groundbreaking seminal work in this area in what is called The Love Project.
Week 4	The final week is where we compare results and see how people are going with giving out the cards, getting dates and dating and see how you are going with the RA on your dates. This is a reporting back and feedback session. Chances are one or two may be in a committed relationship by week 4 and have the evidence in the form of a completed Relationship Agreement to prove it. We also play Love Lotto at the end of the session to see if there are any matches from amongst the group.
Further Info	***EACH MONDAY NIGHT, - FT1 - FINDING THE ONE, THE PRACTICAL FUN COURSE FOR THOSE WANTING TO FIND A NEW PARTNER FOR A RELATIONSHIP AND FOR THOSE JUST COMMENCING A NEW RELATIONSHIP. This course is for those who would really like to be in a relationship or have a special close friend or for those who would just like to do an inexpensive and interesting course on how to find a partner. FT1 is a fun practical course for those ready and wanting to find a partner and, importantly, who are prepared to do what is required to find one. The course is also for those who are just starting a new relationship or those who would like to intensify and have a more controlled and predictable designer relationship too. Topics to be covered during the course are partner finding cards, dating skills and do's and don'ts and entwining and reciprocating and the intriguing new area of relationship agreements with consideration. Note: this course is not for everyone. Many singles (that is those who don't have a partner) do not want to meet anyone or are not ready yet or are not game or prepared to do what is required or have settled for being alone forever. However there are still those who dream and live in hope and have a desire for partnership. It is a course for those who are prepared to be decisive and not half hearted. It is a course for those who would like to court and be courted. This course is a doing course and is for those what want to find a partner, who are relationship oriented, not singles event oriented. Come and join others who are ready to meet someone special and are ready and prepared to do something about it. If you have a friend this would be of interest send them or read to them this information to have them ring and book in. Ring and add your name to the growing list of people who will be on the next course. Bookings and prepayment essential to Parramatta Community College on 9687 2072. "There is nothing so powerful as an idea whose time has come..." "A revolution in relationships ... long overdue." "In the first millennium we had betrothal and arranged marriages, in the second millennium we had love marriages and indeterminate affairs and unsecured relationships the third millennium sees the resurgence of modern day betrothal and certain contractual relationships" "A relationship which is not committed can be a source of anxiety, uncertainty, risk, jealousy, stress, fear and insecurity which distracts from living. A committed relationship leads to relaxation, empowerment, security and strength which flows to other parts of one's life." "The universe rewards action, nothing much else." "Cast your bread upon the waters and it will return to you after many days." "As you sow, so shall you reap." Testimonies from past courses. Background to the course Main page and link to Events site: http://sydneydatingsites.com.au/index.html To tell others how to easily find this site tell them to search on google.com or yahoo.com.au using keywords "ft1 finding the one course" or "ft1 finding the one" or "ft1 course" where the site is no 1 or very near the top. You can get the course notes free on the various sessions at Click here for Week 1 Cards course notes and an example of the a double sided partner finding card. Click here for Week 2 Dating course notes. Click here for Week 3 Relationship Agreement course notes and to download a copy of the Relationship Agreement. © & IP. FT1 course, David Murphy.

TESTIMONIALS

Hi David
I have to tell you I got a lot out of the inaugural FT1 course. It had me thinking about methods of approaching relationships that I would never have considered otherwise. The camaraderie between the course members was just terrific, and although I hadn't received my cards, I used the principles of the FT1 course (and just my ordinary business card) and am pleased to report that I already have a date for this week. It's been a lot of fun and original thinking on the course, so thanks - it was well worth it. And to my fellow course members - see you all soon, and hope you too have some success.
Mike

This course helped me to rethink my priorities and focus on the potential I had for developing a successful relationship. The cameraderie of others within the course was most supportive and encouraging.
Jennie

I have been in this course and I found it very interesting, specially the after meeting with the "students". All are lovely people and the friendship is wonderful and refreshing.
Enri

The course has made me crystallize my thoughts about new possiblities in relationships.
Sue

The card idea inspired me to become much more proactive in approaching people and I have had several dates from doing so. David's course attracted a lovely group of people and the course itself was a great way to meet people and have fun.
Pauline

Hi David,
The FT1 course was a lot of fun. The people attending the course are all very friendly, optimistic and full of energy, they want to be successfull and this is just great ! In addition it is always interesting to hear other opinions about this particular topic. It also forced me to think about what I want in a relationship and what I can give to someone else. Thanks for that.
Regards
Chris

Good Morning David,
Thank you for the opportunity of being involved with FT1.
I particularly achieved a great deal of camaraderie from the course whilst I acknowledge this course is not for every one.
I think your agreement is spot on.
I showed this to my staff all under 40 and they all agreed it was good value, Keep up the good work.
Regards
Dinah

I thoroughly enjoyed the course, even the more controversial aspects of it! I'll be recommending it to my other single friends. Best wishes with your future courses - Sabine.

I also would like to say I enjoy your course very much and have found it very useful. Obviously, the real test will be placing the cards and meeting with people responding. I might also be interested to come along one of the Friday night things, just to beef up my chances - Thanks, Tibor

I think this course has satisfied my need for further knowledge in my future relationships, giving me more confidence and ability as to how I can handle and behave in a different ways - Alicia.

Good ideas about the cards. The course could be longer, say 6 weeks. The cards are a good way to motivate you, goals etc. Good info on relationships once started. Good relaxed class. - Ann

The idea of the cards is a good one. Wish I had a few last Saturday, Don't agree with the concept of Reationship Agreements - guess I have to learn the hard way. Thanks for the insight of 12-18 months break between relationships if you've finished a 10 year relationship - Kevin.

COURSE BACKGROUND AND HISTORY

In late 2004 it was observed by the author of this course that although there were some courses in existence to assist people with relationships which were already in existence there were no courses which were designed to assist people to actually find a partner and start a relationship.
The question of many singles is "Where do I go to find a partner and how do I go about starting a relationship?" There is no assistance around or courses around to find a partner and to start a relationship and many people have no training in this area.
Around this time also people were finding drawbacks and problems with endless intenet dating or going to large noisy dance parties to find a good partner who will commit.

With this in mind, to meet a growing need, the course was born.

It was realized there needed to be three parts: How to find a partner, particularly one who is "off the beaten track" and more likely to commit as many people were finding that finding people at events or off the internet often meant finding a person who when times become difficult will go back to the events or back to the internet to find someone new which leads to the prevalence of dumping, usually with impunity and no recourse by the dumpee.
The only way to find those people "off the beaten track", the majority of singles who are mostly also open to a relationships was with partner finding cards and so the first part of the course is designed to equip one with an attractive, well thought out introduction card and to give many ways in which they can be utilized to get quick results in having many people, who like what they read, to contact you to discuss a relationship.

The second part of the course, it was realized needed to cover the do's and dont's of dating so that dates become directed and productive and so the dates that arise upon meeting will, in most cases, lead to results and become worthwhile and not time consuming. It was realized that there were no courses which dealt with the do's and dont's of dating and so this has been integrated into the course.

It was also observed that the nature of many relationships is that they are uncommited and unbinding and so could be a source of anxiety and uncertainty. There seemed to be no framework for relationships and no proper binding foundation. The Relationship Agreement, which is the third part of the course, was designed to give a proper formal foundation to a new relationship so that important concerns are traversed and settled and agreed to.
To make a relationship binding it was realized that there needed to be agreement as to a term being a duration, a consideration and settlement of other conditions and terms. In this way dumping could be avoided. There are no other documents giving direction as to the setting up of relationships to take into consideration the concerns of both parties and so the Relationship Agreement was born and a copy of this is given out in week three.

By covering the areas of how to find suitable partners, how to approach them or get them to seriously approach you, what to do at the meetings with them and how to engage them in a relationship agreement it soon became apparent that a powerful and effective course designed to get you into a committed relationship within a month was possible and so the FT1 course was born and within weeks some of the first people of the first courses have found themselves in relationships.

The same thing can happen for you, you only have to follow the steps and get out of your single comfort zone.

The essential tools that a participant comes away from the course with is their cards, the Relationship Agreement and the valuable handout notes givn out during the course on the creating and disseminating of the cards, the do's and dont's of dating and infomation on the relationship agreement and then they are ready for instant action and a process for finding relationships whereas before there have been no programs to acheive this end.

Course Leader - David Murphy

Your course leader is David Murphy, a former teacher, successful former business person and current practising law therapist, who, for many years, has run a successful singles dining club while waiting for some lengthy legal claims, in which he is plaintiff, to reach completion.

Against this background, drawing upon a background in marketing, psychology and law, the course and the unique concept of the Relationship Agreement. have been developed.

To tell others how to easily find this site tell them to search on google.com or yahoo.com.au using keywords "ft1 finding the one course" or "ft1 finding the one" or "ft1 course" where the site is no 1 or very near the top.