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A
NEW DIRECTION: WANTED: ALL YOUR PROFILE USER NAMES AND WITH WHICH
SITES -
Please quickly email them back to me now by return email.
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Read this now or later but please email me all your profile user
names and their sites now.
Let's get moving - this is long overdue.
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Don't email the profiles themselves, just names and sites (and any
comments you wish to make): e.g. YourMove on RSVP
+ MeetMeTonight on AFF +
LikeMindedLikeU on AdMM +
PutIt2Me on RHP.
Click
here
to
send your profile user name/s and site/s now.
READ
THIS AND BE PART OF SOMETHING NEW AND DIFFERENT TO WHAT YOU HAVE
EVER SEEN BEFORE (what you would expect from the best group around
- constant innovation).
What
a good idea, What an interesting idea. Once explained people have
generally been commenting favourably but a few are not clear on
it, hence the thorough explanation and exploration of the idea and
detail as to how best to use it for your benefit.
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Generally
singles do either events or dating but some do both. With this idea
those who do both should do well and should already have internet
dating or mating profiles.
Addressing
a Big Issue: Background and the reason why.
A
number of times recently I have noted that people who each have come
to the events for many years continue to find others who have been
also coming for many years and they find that they have not met
before which always strikes me as odd.
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This
happens because there are so many events and so many people that
it is easy to not cross paths, or forget you have, even with
people who have been coming for years. Also, I have noted that
many people don't get to know a lot about many of the people
coming on the night even at a small event - at a big event like
the recent Saturday at Coogee when we had 35 it is impossible and
could be viewed by some as time wasted - but this is true of
events everywhere. I have more of an idea as to who all all the
people are but even I don't know what all or most are like or do
so how can anyone else? - and many people would like me to be
able, even expect me to be able, to provide that information to
them - with no fee (!).
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So
a seemingly insurmountable problem till now has been how do people
really get to know what all the people at an event are going to want
or be like. Are there people coming looking for new friends, are
there some coming looking for a new lover and, importantly, ready for
an instant start, a relationship, a cautious dalliance, some action
or just to get out of the house, which is pretty common. If people
knew this in advance the 1 to 1 conversations could be much more
warmed up and vibrant - they're not bad now but properly done we,
that means you, could really get things moving right along.
On
the nights we've always enjoyed that focus of people finding people
and what would DC/SDS be without it? It would be a sexless group and
there are a few of those out there and that's not how we started or
wish to be, it's better to be piquant with people getting surprizes.
The forming of friendships and liaisons has always been a bit of
spice for those who attend, some benefit directly and get lucky,
often quite by surprize, others watch and hopes are raised and they
come back. However as a result of the way things have been I have
seen relationships between members who have been members for many
years literally take all those years to come together because they
had not crossed paths. With this new profiles system such
relationships could form within weeks or maybe days even.
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Often,
women especially, ask me questions like: what are the people, or
guys, like who are coming? Many people really seem to want to know
more about the people who are coming and who they might meet at
the event or maybe would like to get to know more about later on
or be able to follow up if they miss an opportunity.
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They
would like it that their venture to an event could really prove
fruitful either by way of new friends or suitors who had
demonstrated themselves as worth knowing or having because they
have really taken the time to find out about you, or what you want
them to know, or think (you can program for a preferred response
even), in preparation for the event - a most unusual idea for any
events such as ours. And importantly we all know how important it
is to meet a potential mate in context and with a joint purpose as
if there is no such affinity and common social etc heritage it is
hard for an involvement to take root and grow - hence the need for
well written coming-to-events profiles to bring you up to speed
and qualify and arouse initial interest and initial responsiveness
and arousal.
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Yes,
with this new idea you can actually do some really fruitful, for
you and for them, preparation and planning. And if people can do
preparation and research before the event (and a lot would) and,
based on what they have found, decide to come when otherwise they
might not then things are going to get a lot more interesting for
most everyone who has gotten themselves organized in advance. Once
you have done a profile (a for-coming-to-events type of profile,
not quite the usual sort, differently slanted, and why have just
one, maybe have a few) it's in place for good - and you can make
alterations and refinements along the way, even set out
preferences, lay out what you want, how you like to approached and
what you would like do later on, and "create" your
responses based upon feedback and results, all with the slant that
the profile is designed to create responses at an event rather
than how they normally are.
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(Recently
(really as research) I made three different profiles, the first in
a long time, on three different sites but as most people do
general type ones I did them totally outrageous and experiential
for fun to see who on earth would contact me and what on earth
would they want (I set up a business just like that in the mid
90's and had all sorts of fascinating women ringing up for all
sorts of things, research project with benefits mainly) -
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because
I really don't care too much but it has started me thinking. I know
why I did them and I know why the why and I know why the why the why
so I can't be knocked off my perch but come and try - try or comply.
One is on a site for a group which is sexless and it is a parody to
create an effect, the smart ones will work it out or see through it.
The other two are on those, yes those, sorts of sites but even for
those sites the two profiles are not like anything any of the guys
there could remotely write, or imagine, I think they just imagine one
thing, - these two profiles should create some interesting designer
responses as any good profile should create designer responses, not
just inform and a lot of my stuff is written to elicit designer
responses and to create realities - you can too if think about it.
I'm intrigued to know if any of what they trumpet exists at all
because I have problems with the concept and don't think it really
can. However I didn't put any profiles on the vanilla dating sites
because since there is so much dissembling that goes on,
conditionalities, agendas, disillusionment, time wasting, conflicting
expectations, beating around the bush etc. I would not again waste my
time with them. At least the other sites are more honest, or so I am
hearing, and if you can cut out all the rubbish and idiots and people
who are indiscriminate there are some much more forthcoming people
with coincidental interests to yourself, if you are still potent, and
coincidental interests if you are "true to yourself". For a
bit more on this read what I wrote in MyTwitter#5 in Monday's (17.5)
events summary email.)
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Many
members have profiles on dating or mating sites and most everyone
wants as many people as possible to see them and respond (well,
you'd think so) so we're going to start doing things with the
profiles and I want all of your profile usernames them, yes all of
them, please.
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I
just need to know all your user profile usernames for each of your
sites, dating and mating, and I'll start doing a number of things
with them to get you more traffic, not just from our 1,783 members
but also the visitors to my sites who just look but maybe don't join
(my sds site stats tell me there are 1,476 visits per month to the
sydneydatingsites.com.au site alone, 788 uniques, so there are plenty
of people visiting both sites) and some other benefits.
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There
are many people on the list who don't come to the events that
often and some of them prefer the main alternative to events which
is dating, or mating, or daring if you like. Others don't come
because they have never summoned up the courage to come as they
know no one so this idea can greatly help. Here is something
specifically for all those who like the internet dating as well as
those who come to the events. In fact everyone with a profile or
two or more. You don't have to give me a link, unless you wish,
maybe a link might be a good idea but I'm calling for it yet.
We
want the profiles for the dating sites and the adult/daring/mating
sites (they're probably all much the same people). It is said
there are far more people on the adult sites than on the dating
sites so I expect them to be well represented and the people on
them more lively which is what we need, well some of them. I will
not be disclosing which are your different sites so people won't
know how many you have or which ones go with which (e.g your
dating site and your adult site). I will not be giving names and
if you have a dating profile people will not be able to tell if
you have also given me the profile name for a daring/mating/adult
site too -they simply won't be able to tell. It will be all very
simple and discrete.
Also,
this is not just for all the members on the email list but for all
their friends, dates, contacts etc etc. so spread the word and
send them all in to me but with an email address and some details,
name, suburb, contact number/s, dob if poss. please. Round up
everyone and I shall include them also in what will be happening.
If you are sending friends' etc please send me their email
addresses and those other details too as some people may ask me -
and I can send them emails as to what is happening and if they
have profiles they will be sure to want to know. The more the
better. Tell all the people at all the other singles events you go
to and collect all their profile names and other details for me -
especially if they're nice - happy hunting. Gives you a good
reason to start a conversation.
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This
may be a good time to update your profiles, add some photos,
reword it, slant it. It certainly is the right time to create new
and rather different special coming-to-events-profiles on some
sites which will be nonetheless effective. The usual internet
dating visitors will detect something very unusual and intriguing
about it because it is seemingly seeking to elicit a response they
can’t quite put their finger on – yet. When some of the new
ideas start to come online you could reword your existing profiles
again to angle it it in a certain way so that your get a desired
response and benefit from visitors who may want to meet you -
after all you can promote your profiles how you like for maximum
exposure and I'm not charging you anything for this. So take up
this chance to increase the exposure for all your profiles and
send me the usernames and sites and maybe a link if you want (just
copy that from the url for your profile on its site, the url is
the website address of the profile in the url bar where you type
in a web address (not on the google address bar) but in your
browser's url bar. It could make it easier for visitors to visit
if they can click on a link but it's probably not critical.
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With
the dating sites I think anyone can, even if they are not have not
joined that site, see your profile but with the adult ones the only
ones who can see them are the ones who have joined that adult site so
there should be no potential embarrassment in submitting any adult
profile names too. Doing so will cause more appropriate people to
join those sites and for those disenchanted with the relationship
concept these sites can be very successful if you set guidelines and
do disqualifications and are not indiscriminate and have thought
things through. From their figures a lot of people are on them so we
want some of them too.
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Once
you have submitted your profiles to me you won't have to advise me
of any updates as the profile name will always lead to the updated
version of your profile - unless you change your profile name or
set up a new one with a new name. If you have a few profiles you
can tell me which is the preferred one on which site or I can list
them all.
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It
will be interesting to start publicizing certain profiles for those
who attend certain events and, rightly managed, you could have very
interesting results - they can attract people to attend an event who
have seen your profile and want to meet you and you can ask to know
their profile names on different sites to read up on them. If you
have further suggestions please tell me. I have a few other ideas too
like there may be a lot of people on a particular site or two so some
events could be done for just those like-minded people - could start
a new group on a particular site. This could stir things up a bit -
so I need all the profile names and sites.
For
many people an informed approach at an event by someone who has taken
the time to study your profile can be impressive - especially if they
are nice and they will be nicer if they have studied your profile and
taken a real interest in you and are OK ! If you meet at an event you
don't have to stay talking to them as on an awkward date - you can
get away from them (even at a restaurant party there may be a few
spare seats around or you can get one and move somewhere else) or
introduce them to someone else and move away or you can both leave
together straightaway - why stay if you click? I've seen that done.
You also get some useful feedback on your for-coming-to-events
profile so you can alter it.
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When
you email me your profile usernames and on which sites feel free
to add any brief comments and qualifiers, though I suppose
everything would be in the profile. And when you do why not book
in for a few events so we can straightaway put your username/s up
on the bookings ratio page for immediate effect.
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You
can tell me usernames of other non dating/daring sites too, like
facebook, twitter and the like.
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If
for some reason you want me to show your email address or mobile
number as on Contact Me then give me your Contact Me details for
people to contact you directly from Contact Me after reading your
profile. Contact Me is my free dating site on this page elsewhere
on my site.
With
the listing of the profile user names and sites in combination
with the fact that my speed dating is the only one where you get
your results on the very night it makes my speed dating an ideal
place to meet those who have seen your profile. If they have seen
your profile and you match and click then you can proceed
straightaway to decide what you are going to do next there, and
then. It saves face and determines if you both like each other
enough and that admission and declaration and commitment can be
very powerful and exciting and opportunity should not be lost.
Lose one and you'll lose the next and the next and get into a bad
patterns and miss out on making friends who like you - and who if
you don't fancy them may still recommend you to their friends.
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Perhaps
tell all the your contacts whom you have met through your dating
or mating sites to also send me their profile usernames - they
should do it although if you think about it there's no reason why
you can't give them to me with a request for anonymity if you like
and with those above requested details.
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If
you want to read some background to where this is coming from go back
and read what I wrote in the thank you for coming last night report
on the dinner night at Sistine's a few weeks ago as that was a
watershed email and much is developing from that.
Your
Move - send them all to me.
David
8214
8397
sydneydatingsites.com.au
dinnerclub.net.au
speeddating.net.au
P.S.
And
Girls: please keep sending me those email addresses, with a request
for anonymity if you like, of those nice new guys you all know who
don’t know about us but should to add to the list so I can send
them the notifications for the events. We are the best group around
with the nicest people so there is no reason not too. Don’t be like
those girls who complain there aren’t enough guys and then sit on
their own and won’t share them. I can’t possibly be expected to
do it all. So please keep sending me those guys’ email addresses
like I asked for and thanks for those who have. If all you girls were
to send me just 2 or 3, you would all have 2 or 3 or could find some,
we would have heaps more guys than girls on the list and the girls
would be flooded with guys and you would all like that - it’s as
easy as that so every one send me some guy’s emails. Try and make a
point of sending me 10 – 15 as there will still be some selfish
girls who still will not share or tell the guys they know – they
expect me to do it all and have told me such and they still complain.
This is a joint effort so please help me – I can’t find them all
socially through normal channels because they don’t all move in
those circles as is natural for women – we have to break them in to
it - they’re virgins. I will do the breaking in for you so please
all help me.
Homework:
Look through your email address books and over some old emails and
pick out 10 to 15 and send them to me now, with a request for
anonymity if you like, with your above requested profile names and
with which dating/mating sites. Don’t tell me you don’t know or
can’t find any guys email addresses – that’s rubbish you all
know some or can and send good ones, not rejects.
P.P.S..
Coming Soon: The return of the long lost 4th
format
of dinner club is returning: the Interest Evenings on Topics and
Themes in homes with munchies – a great way to meet a different
section of the list around purposeful events of interest. Got a pet
hobbyhorse you want to talk to a group about?, some obsession,
interest, service, therapy, speciality, idea, meetup, internet or
facebook group – contact me to become a presenter. Know someone who
has? Get them to send an email to me with an outline or final wording
and images of what they want to talk to a group about and I’ll put
them up front. These nights were always fascinating and very popular
and ran for many years and will be held on Tuesdays or Thursdays. As
they are held in home as a social more new hosts / hostesses are
needed so email me if you can offer your place for a group of about 5
- 10 - 15. Everyone brings the food and drinks or some speakers may
provide. Hosts/hostesses will be placed on a special notification
list of speakers on offer so they can pick which ones they want to
host on which nights. Get involved: present or be a host/ess.
fyi: Copy of the
current welcome email which only the new people get to see which is
creating all the interest:
Summary
of coming events:
sydneydatingsites.com.au/html/emailout.html
Speed
dating events: sydneydatingsites.com.au/html/speeddating.html
Coming
events in detail: sydneydatingsites.com.au/html/rcp.html
Click
here
to
be able to come to events for no charge.
Hi
Thank
you for joining our SydneyDatingSites.com.au Dinner Club
/ Speed Dating email list.
This
may have grown to be a long welcome email but it is worth the time
taken to read it so please do take the time to read it or you may
come seriously unstuck at the events - especially if you are a man.
Be ready to have a lot of notions, pre-conceptions and stereotypes
challenged. You may be in for a wild ride. I hope you enjoy the trip
which never ends. It might just make you exactly what a woman wants
and that will make you very very happy. Read on.
Many
people now like an alternative to internet dating where you actually
get to meet real people and talk with them in a non-confrontational
context or just to have a social life and make new friends. Although
internet dating sites can't promote or provide it what many people
are really wanting is events
where they can meet real
people, not just awkward dates, and to make new friends and contacts
in person of their own choice. After all you can't just stay home
every Friday and Saturday night or keep moving in your same well
defined and perhaps confined social circles or regular venues and
meet anyone much new there when there are designer events taking
place and new people there for you to meet who are wanting to meet
new people, just like you, or find someone special in person, just
like you. To that end our main events now include regular
conversational Restaurant Dinner Parties, Speed Dating and Dinner
House Parties at selected venues and attendance is by invitation and
you always need to confirm your attendance as early as possible (men
take note, women should ask the men when they booked and their
suburb, see below).
You
will soon be receiving an email as to what's on and each week
thereafter and you are asked to book in as early as possible, by
email or phone, for as many events as you would like to attend.
As
there are no joining fees you are welcome to bring friends to the
events, although most people come on their own.
If
you have not already done so could you please advise me of your
suburb/town, contact number/s and d.o.b? You may also care to supply
a photo (after all, you have already seen mine on the website so it's
only fair that I should get one and we may need to know who to look
out for when you come to your first event. I will keep it on file and
can then later send it out to any potential admirers so send it in to
me). Please
also definitely definitely definitely send me all your internet
profile usernames (don't send the profiles themselves) and with which
internet dating / adult dating site or social networking site as we
have now just recently commenced using these incredibly valuable
resources so the members can get to know each other better etc -
which is ultimately what such profiles are for.
As time goes by you will see how they are being used to promote you.
If you are sending me me profile usernames and your photo is on your
profile don't worry about the request for a photo.
Also
maybe you could tell me how you discovered my website - I always like
to know.
We
are now on Facebook (just joined 4.4.10). Link to us at
facebook.com/sydneydatingsites.
All
that we ask is that you turn up to some events from time to time and
maybe bring a friend or two - makes it more interesting for
everyone. To stay on the on the email list you must come to your
first event within three months of the date of this welcome email and
to at least one event every twelve months thereafter. There are
plenty of events - about four per week (speed dating on Mondays,
restaurant parties on Wednesday and Friday and dinner house parties
on Saturdays) so it is very easy to comply, providing you like either
restaurant parties, house dinner parties or speed dating - and who
doesn't - though people usually go for one or the other and don't
know what they're missing.
Although
there is no joining or membership fee (for the sincere who join in
good faith) there is usually a cost for each event but it is possible
to not have to pay any fees at all and in time you might like to take
this offer up. Keep an eye out for it.
It
is essential to confirm your intended attendance at all events by
email or phone as early as possible. If needs be you can cancel if
you find you are unable to attend but everyone, and men in
particular, are asked to book early as men seem to often book late
which causes me problems with numbers and ratios and has even led to
the cancellation of events and women pulling out due to an early
ratio imbalance. We have had to cancel some events for this reason
and it has subsequently transpired that with the eventual mens' late
bookings we would have had perfectly even numbers or even more men
than women - the bookings ratio page works! This has led to
embarrassing and unnecessary cancellation problems with my venues.
Furthermore the women do not want meet men who can't organize
themselves and who show disrespect for the events and the female
members and the organizer by booking late (so you may find the women
casually ask you your suburb and at what time you booked (if they are
interested in you) and then afterwards (or maybe straightaway on
their mobiles) check the bookings webpage to check - a little test so
don't fail it - book early. Consistent late bookings may incur a late
booking penalty fee as consistent and unjustified very late booking
is a form of contempt. There is no biological reason for men to book
late, they don't do it at work and we don't want it here and if the
men ask the ladies out (or preferably the other way around (if the
man says no ask him "why on earth not, even if I have to pay??))
they should also ask the lady (or him) early in the week to show
respect and it makes for a happier and more successful and planned
date.
People
are also asked to be on time particularly for the restaurant parties
and the speed dating events as being late is also a display of
disrespect or contempt for the others and myself and delays our
getting started.
This
group has always, since its inception, been for the women to get the
man/or men they want for as long or as short as they want and that is
why Eva set it up - to get herself a man - and she did. Consequently,
since the nice men get grabbed and squirreled away and as men are
somewhat socially ignorant of these sorts of female-minded social
groups all men and women are constantly asked to be on the lookout
for good new men to introduce or bring along as I should not have to
be expected to find them all - I need a bit of help although I am
getting them though not enough. Every one should be on the lookout to
find them. An easy way to help out is to simply email me email
addresses of recommended men (with a name, suburb, dob/yob and phone
number/s and job description if you can) and you don't even have to
tell me who is sending me the email addresses though you should have
nothing to hide and you will in time want a report. You can (secretly
if you wish) give them to me on a piece of paper at an event (or
discuss them with me) and I will add them to the list. I will send
them a special introductory email telling them they have been
especially recommended by a secret admirer to get them to come along,
you can check the bookingspage for their suburb (you will need to
give it to me) to appear on the bookingspage for an event. If you
like I will even ring them (landline number preferred of course) to
come along to an event (and for them to bring more men, I can get
most any of them or find out why not) so you can have your time with
them if you like. But in consideration for my doing this I would like
you to find me email addresses of lots of nice men - this is your
reciprocal project to help all the other women. Someone who you are
not interested in might be just right for another lady. Remember I am
here primarily for the women to achieve full satisfaction and to find
men and amongst those a right man and I appreciate any assistance or
act of appreciation they might like to bestow. In some cases just a
thank you or another introduction will do if you can't think of
anything else.
Men
can also discreetly send me email addresses of nice women with
hopefully the same details (the job description is not so important
as it is more interesting to get to know a woman without knowing what
she does) if they like and I will do likewise for them. I will not
steal the women away from you as I never get interested in women
unless they are very specific and direct and accommodating (and
probably a busy woman) and anyway they always always discount the
organizer (it doesn't matter what I say or write nothing is going to
happen, never does, never will, but if it does I can hopefully talk
them out of anything, I think).
Go
to work and do it! Aim for a target of 5 - 10 emails for me - a month
even. Maybe you have some friends, even married ones who will help
out. Ask your company secretary or department head or the
receptionist to covertly give you the email addresses of the 5 - 10
best and nicest and most available men (or women) (or any
company even - just ring them for me, tell them anything, just don't
lie to them). Maybe direct them to the website or send them this
welcome email so they will understand what your faultless and
honourable designs are. It can be more effective if we do it this way
than your just bringing a solitary man (or woman) cold to an isolated
event where he (or she) has not been informed as to what we are about
and what everyone's agenda is first - as then they are warmed up and
more receptive to any advances. Remember most people are looking no
matter what they say. Also ladies can set a target when they go out
of, helps to do it with a friend, getting the email addresses, and
any other details of dishy men they see at nightspots, could be the
perfect ice breaker and gives you the perfect reason to approach
anyone you like. Say your doing it for a friend to help him out with
shortages of men at private events - they will then tell you
everything. If you are convincing it is not hard to get all the
details on these lost and wayward butterflies and maybe extract an
invitation to go straight for a free dinner for both you and your
friend for your efforts. Aim otherwise for 5 - 10 per night and try
hard to get referrals and their landline number, or address, that
sorts out the married or cohabiting ones. If they say they are
married ask them if they are happily or just technically married or
cohabiting. They shouldn't be out alone (late) if they are really
happily married or cohabiting but you may be wise to position
yourself as the first port of call for those who don't know what's on
offer or where to go when they finally terminally launch or drift.
There
are lost of available women around so there must be just as many
available men. For every woman in a marriage or relationship there
can only be an equal number of men. The scavenging and targeted
gathering of men's emails is one way we find those who are off the
beaten track and they are the best prospects for relationships or
understandings. Not the regulars or players on internet dating sites
or nightclubs or dance parties who will not stick when things get
difficult or boring. The best ones will be able to conduct a
conversation and show an interest and are the ones who really like
you and that you really can grow to want.
In
our events the ladies should not wait for the men to make the first
move and are encouraged to initiate any form of involvement - except
financial - with the man or men of their choice. Most women however
think that all men don't like this very proactive but complimentary
approach but that is only because either he is undeveloped or
diffident or not really visually attracted to you. However all the
men who do like what they see and even some of those who don't,
quite, will still be totally mesmerized (which is what it is) or
transfixed or even thunderstruck by your nonpareil and irresistible
approach will very much like this - it really sorts them out and
polarizes them for you and you can know they really like you as they
know you really really like them. Importantly you can get any man of
your choice and he will be particularly and very effectively
impressed with and by you (it takes weeks for the impact out of their
head, they never quite do, I know it's been done to me a few times)
and hence compliant and will like you more - even apart from looks
and dress and make up (you won't need it). There is no argument these
days for ladies showing restraint and a woman who is proactive is
greatly admired and respected. Even so it is still a good idea to
conduct further investigations and put him "through the hoops"
as then you will feel more relaxed and impressed with him if he
measures up. So for ladies: being forward works but then seek to
disqualify so you can be totally satisfied - don't make it too easy
too early but don't let up on the one you want - and get them to do
most of the work - just make sure they do, there are right ways to do
this. (An easy early line to use is to say to someone you are
attracted to is "If you really really like me ask me out. Where
do you suggest? I'll pay and then I don't have to do anything".
Try it and see what happens. Another very quick question for ladies
to ask a man is "Am I your sort?". A woman would usually
not be able to answer this question upon first meeting a man but a
man, who is visual, surprise, surprise, can. No matter what he then
says then ask "How can you tell?, we need to talk first. You're
only going on looks and looks or dress only get you to first base".
If you like these sorts of pointers then come to the Wednesday night
dinners as we discuss these sorts of provocative subjects (approaches
and relationships or understandings) at those events and consequently
sometimes things do happen.
Dress
for the events for the men is good casual but the ladies can wear
whatever they like as daring as they feel. Men think women always
look good and dress well no matter what they wear - though no kitchen
or really frumpy house clothes.
We
are always on the lookout for good house party venues so if you like
to entertain and meet a lot of new friends quickly and even quickly
be discovered you might like to offer. Hosts do not have to provide
any food or drinks or cutlery, cups or plates etc and can come to the
events for no or cheapest cost. They may also like to specify an age
range for their event. Nothing really untoward goes on at the
house parties, we're too refined for that and the women (and usually
the men) are far too subtle. But don't be totally innocent and
clueless - just let the women suggest what they might like to
do or where they might like to go - you have to listen closely as
guys can tend to miss out on hints and they are testing you. If you
pass you get rewarded, if you don't you'll never know what happened
and you never will and the ladies will look for someone else who
passes with whom they can develop an understanding (not everyone is
sold on the problematic and often terminal (and I say outmoded)
relationship option).
I
look forward to your reply to the above questions and above request
and your first bookings. We look forward to meeting you very soon at
the events.
I
would appreciate a response to this email - with a booking.
You
are welcome to email this email on to your favourite male and female
friends who may be interested to come along and get involved. They
should then send me an email with their details: full name, suburb,
contact number/s and date of birth to be notified weekly as to what's
on and where.
Banning
people policy: We don't have a membership fee so we're not obliged to
keep nuisances on the list. I invite you to make complaints about
members who you think should be banned, especially now that we have a
lot of new people joining. When I receive three independent
sustainable complaints about someone I start by perhaps embarking on
some behaviour modification and setting some conditions upon that
person such as they have to bring either a few bottles of wine (or
maybe spirits if they are a real pain) for all the women at the
restaurant dinners, whether they be a man or a woman (then everyone
is much more favourable and tolerant) or they have to bring extra
food to the dinner house parties or buy most of the girls (probably
the case) drinks, wine or spirits or cocktails, at speed dating and
as well they have to introduce at least one new man and one new woman
who attends an event and goes on the email list every six months -
or maybe 12 if they're doing spirits or cocktails. If they don't
comply they go, which they probably will - but you might some get
free upmarket drinks out of it and the newies might be good or
normal. They could of course become a dinner house party host/ess if
acceptable as that covers a multitude of sins. Let's hope we get a
few and have some fun.
You
may think this email is long but people didn't read the much much
shorter much more boring one I used to send out before so it won't
make any difference except for those who have persevered this far. If
you did then I would very much like to hear what you thought (apart
from the comments: you must think us women are a bunch of
sirens - and - we'd rather get the guys to do everything
- or - as another guy said: I'm not coming to your
events. I'll get raped). Please bring up your comments at one of the
future dinners.
David
8214
8397
http://sydneydatingsites.com.au
(If you have a website why not link to
http://sydneydatingsites.com.au
so visitors to your site will know about our great events and bring
along new people for everyone to meet! Makes it
better for everyone! )
Summary
of coming events:
sydneydatingsites.com.au/html/emailout.html
Speed
dating events: sydneydatingsites.com.au/html/speeddating.html
Coming
events in detail: sydneydatingsites.com.au/html/rcp.html
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